It can be tempting in the modern day and age to get dragged into irrelevant topics and discourses online that have nothing to do with you. Algorithms are designed to keep you on apps, websites, news channels, whatever it is you use. It’s 100% possible to totally disengage with these, but some people want to use these things for other reasons.
Most problematic discourses will pit one group against another and tell them to fight. While, sure, there are some fights that need to happen (America’s increasingly authoritarian government is an issue) many of these things simply don’t matter because their outcome will be reflected in reality. Do you think XYZ is unfair about social group Y? If it is that way, it will be that way whether you worry about it or not. If it is something changeable, work on it. If you are saying “this is inherent to group X and it is bad” why bother? As an example, I have one person I know who has views on dating I do not share.
I firmly believe there are plenty of good people out there, of both/any/all genders, and that these good people generally make good partners. There are reasonable, intelligent, kind individuals everywhere. The world is not out to get you, and there is no “playing field” to consider – it is just kind human interaction. However, this person has repeatedly told me he thinks women are shallow. It is difficult to debate this with him, because when I bring up tangible examples from our lives he will just repeat the mantra again. He believes on some level that the reason he does not have a date is not him but the women.
Let’s grant him his premise for the sake of argument. Under those conditions, what good will complaining about it do? This man could do with improving his hygiene, dress, and a number of other things. These would make a tangible difference to his experience. He is either right, in which case there is no merit to complaining and action would be better, or he is wrong in which case action is not needed but there is still no merit to complaining. From either side of the conventional gender spectrum, the opposite sex can smell misogyny/misandry from a mile away and it reeks. I would argue his beliefs about women are his biggest barrier to meeting someone quality.
This is just one example of this problem where someone focuses on an issue the outcome of which is irrelevant to how they should act. This is broadly applicable anytime you are debating with someone something about the way the world is or what is real. If it is an inherent part of the world, just act properly. Who is right does not matter.